tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9571647.post115013367625049548..comments2024-02-01T02:16:29.656+03:00Comments on Devil's Mind: Marriage Abolishes Friendly RelationshipsDevil's Mindhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10541884626112839842noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9571647.post-1150657473484246592006-06-18T22:04:00.000+03:002006-06-18T22:04:00.000+03:00Regardless of the specific clauses of any contract...Regardless of the specific clauses of any contract (marriage or otherwise), as long as all parties involved in such contact are fully aware and consenting to those clauses then it should be alright... Unless they decide to have children, then thats a different story because the best interest of those children must be part of the deal!<BR/><BR/>If a couple doesnt wanna publicly announce their marriage then thats their bussiness, unless its breaking a previous contract they made or a legitimate interest of another party...Devil's Mindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10541884626112839842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9571647.post-1150648903272424702006-06-18T19:41:00.000+03:002006-06-18T19:41:00.000+03:00i donno what does "Zwaj 3urfi" convey, but its sec...i donno what does "Zwaj 3urfi" convey, but its secrecy is what makes it bad. Otherwise why not have a regular marriage? and the fact that you can just forget about it whenever you want. to lose its validity without having to divorce. i don't know, if anyone knows please correct me if i'm wrong, im not sure. But its like keeping your marriage a secret which i think is not healthy. <BR/><BR/>Wedding accessories are how you express your joy among family and friends ( if you want to share it with them)in all cases, it should be special, special doesn't mean spend all what you have on it, but it should be different. because its yours, it should be your way :)Talahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17308820896939744575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9571647.post-1150576286289189502006-06-17T23:31:00.000+03:002006-06-17T23:31:00.000+03:00I am not sure what "Zwaj 3urfi" is (maybe you can ...I am not sure what "Zwaj 3urfi" is (maybe you can enlighten me), but as far as i know, only the married parties are the ones concerned; Parental or otherwise knowledge\consent is not required... If polygamy was allowed in that marriage then the consent of other partners involved might be required (according to the clauses of their marriages)!<BR/><BR/>(I think) What you call wedding accessories and rituals are totally useless and unnecessary!Devil's Mindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10541884626112839842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9571647.post-1150571251312371722006-06-17T22:07:00.000+03:002006-06-17T22:07:00.000+03:00why would anyone feel obliged to tell anyone besid...<EM>why would anyone feel obliged to tell anyone beside their partner of such love?</EM> <BR/><BR/>so you can define your status among the community, organisational matters! and to define family blocks. <BR/><BR/><EM>whats wrong with the simple words: "I love you (unconditionally)", to announce your love to your partner?! </EM><BR/><BR/>there is nothing wrong with it, especially when its a relation. but relations evolve.. i guess<BR/><BR/>you tell me, how bad is "Al Zawaj il 3urfee" ? what do you think of it? when somebody is in love , his/her eyes speak for them , they would want to scream it out loud. thats why we do weddings! bas you know traditions let you forget the main point, and sink into the wedding accessories, Jahha, and the Reception :)Talahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17308820896939744575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9571647.post-1150567898920042692006-06-17T21:11:00.000+03:002006-06-17T21:11:00.000+03:00If marriage was neither a promise nor contract, th...If marriage was neither a promise nor contract, then my arguments dont hold... <BR/><BR/><I>"rather than an anouncement to everyone"</I>: But assuming marriage was simply an annoucement as u suggest: First of all, why would anyone feel obliged to tell anyone beside their partner of such love? Guess love is a personal matter, not something to declar publicly! Besides, whats wrong with the simple words: "I love you (unconditionally)", to announce your love to your partner?!Devil's Mindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10541884626112839842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9571647.post-1150556440333278062006-06-17T18:00:00.000+03:002006-06-17T18:00:00.000+03:00when you get married, I guess you stop asking your...when you get married, I guess you stop asking yourself every morning whether you love or you don't love your partner, because you know you do. otherwise why would you sty with him or her? marriage is not a contract rather than an anouncement to everyone that you love this specific person and you chose to be with him/her for the rest of your life. its a way to tell your partner that you love him/her, and you treasure them to the extent that you would spend your life with him/her. and that your love is strong enough to defeat all the times weakness crawls. i guess in such times. you should have it always in your mind, the source of your hidden strenght that you found in your partner. we all grow, we all do mistakes, we are so imperfect. but you made a choice to be with one. the beauty resembles in the journey..Talahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17308820896939744575noreply@blogger.com